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Why you buy the wrong clothes – Client Wisdom

Client Wisdom: The More You Know

Today, I’m sharing what one of wonderful, and quite observant, long-time clients sent to me in an email.

“I’ve been thinking about another one of your many words of wisdom – (paraphrased)………’don’t go shopping with anyone’ and, ‘you don’t want to dress like your daughter.’

So, what prompted me to think about this was a recent visit to my local consignment store. I go in to drop clothes off, but never look around to buy. Well, a couple of weeks ago my 20 something niece was visiting from NC and she went in there and bought a lot of really cute clothes. Then last week I dropped off something else and the store was full of 20 somethings buying lots of clothes. These clothes looked great on them but it wouldn’t cross my mind to wear the clothes myself. And it got me to thinking……….where are these clothes coming from? Then I had an aha moment, these young women are buying clothes the mothers are consigning because they bought them while shopping with their daughters! So, if one wants a lot of clothes to consign, go shopping with your daughter!”
C.L.

Hmmm, something to think about…

Note: The reason she went to the consignment shop was to drop off, and pick up her earnings from the clothes I advised she shouldn’t keep or wear. Be sure to not let money sit in your closet. Consign or donate the ones wrong for you too.

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Shopping tip for mothers and daughters

What would you have said? 😳

If you are a mother or a daughter, you’ll likely relate to
what I witnessed.

Use this shopping tip for mothers and daughters.

Watch below and see why I couldn’t be quiet. 😳

And the she said…

“Before working with Stylist Scarlett, I had a closet full of clothes that no longer fit and zero ideas about how to dress my “new” middle-aged body in anything other than leggings. Scarlett provided thoughtful suggestions based on my needs and feedback about why pieces worked or didn’t work with my body type. More than once, she was part stylist, and part therapist, encouraging me to try new colors and styles. I now have outfits at the ready and get dressed without hating myself! Scarlett is a gem and I recommend her to anyone struggling to find their fashion way.”

– HEATHER FRECHETTE-CROWLEY

Shopping tip for mothers and daughters

Are you tired of feeling frumpy?
You deserve to love what you wear, and how you look in your clothes. 
Book a complimentary 30-minute Know What to Wear Zoom call with me. You’ll learn how to feel confident, stylish, and excited to get dressed every day!

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Closet Makeover Part 2

Closet Makeover Part 2

In my last blog, I gave you a sneak peek into how I re-organized and beautified my client’s closet in California.

Today, you’ll see more and yes, I know that she is very lucky to have a large closet.

Please know that everything I did in terms of organizing will also work in your own closet, no matter how small or big it may be.


I used the floor shoe rack for sneakers and hiking boots, tucked into a corner instead of where it was before under the window.

Tip 1 – Keep all your shoes in one place. In the photo above you can see she had some on the floor, upper shelves, and more in bins. This is very common, but not a good use of space.
Instead, keep them all together on the floor, or if you are lucky enough to have shelves, store them there. See the above-after photo.

Note: Donate or consign the shoes you no longer can, or will wear again.

Tip 2 – Use all the same hangers for your clothes. No plastic or wire ones…please!

Tip 3 – Use see-thru plastic boxes for shoes. It’s ok to use a regular cardboard box now and then too, or use the clear boxes for larger shoes/booties.

Tip 4 – Use a pretty laundry bin. Here’s the one I found for this closet makeover.

Tip 5 – Hang like with like. Sleeveless with sleeveless, short sleeves with shorts, etc.

Tip 6 – If you are fortunate enough to have room for a rug and chair or bench, then use it! I asked my client if she had an extra chair and rug, and much to my delight, she did!

You can transform your closet with tips 1 to 5 in a matter of hours, and find pieces you forgot you had, and recognize those you need to say goodbye to.

P.S. I redid another of her closets which I’ll share one day as well.


Get these FREE tips to clean out your closet. 

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Closet Makeover – Part 1

My Client Was Unhappy

My 2+ year-long virtual client needed more from me than I was already giving her. 😳

OK, here’s the backstory.

I had already found great new clothes and created can’t-wait-to-wear outfits for her, but she was disappointed that her closet wasn’t pretty and organized.

She really wanted me to work in-person with her, but I live in New York and she’s in California, so not much can be done about that.

But, then she had a brilliant idea 🤩…
Last week, I flew to San Francisco and spent 3 wonderful days creating a closet sanctuary for my wonderful client.

I’m still tired from my trip and the time difference, so I’ll be sharing photos and details over the next few weeks.

Sneak peek: Below is a before of some shelves barely being used. Can you guess what I did with them?

Now, woman to woman…I’m a bit tired these days, and I wonder if you’re also feeling exhausted.

Or maybe you discovered navigating menopause isn’t always a walk in the park.
For me, it’s heartbreaking to hear women struggling with their bodies that are out of control, feeling uncomfortable, frumpy, and exhausted.

Hold on a moment! Before you panic, here’s the silver lining. I’m excited to share that I’ll participate in an amazing free 14-day talk series focused on boosting your energy, calming the flushes, dressing a changing body, and finding emotional balance.
And guess what? I’ve reserved FREE front-row seats just for you here!

Get exclusive access to the complete (Peri) Menopause Like a Pro series for free right HERE.

PS My presentation will be available on February 27, 2024.


End Your Closet Shame – learn how to let go of the clothes that are doing you wrong. 

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Tips For Stress-Free Shopping

Tips For Stress-Free Shopping

The photo below is of an actual warehouse sale I went to. 😳

It also is how most of my clients view shopping for clothes.

Overwhelming, confusing, and impossible. But, if you shop knowing what works best on you, then it’s soooo much easier to go through the racks and zero in on what you should try on, versus leaving empty-handed, depressed, and stressed.

Shopping is only stressful when it’s unsuccessful.

Note: I walked out with a pair of $230 Paige jeans for just $25.
That’s all I bought and no stress was involved.

On a completely other note, I dressed up my website, ScarlettImage.com, and would love for you to take a look and let me know what you think.

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How To Make Pants Fit

My Pants Did Not Fit…Till Now

Here’s how to make pants fit better.

Don’t you just hate it when your pants are tight, but seemed to fit not that long ago?

I hate when that happens, and it happens a lot to me and a whole lot of other women I know.
It also happens in reverse.

You know like when you buy a pair of pants, and then miraculously, you lose a few pounds, and you spend your days hiking them up…and then they slip down again.

Well, I hate when that happens too.

I discovered an incredibly inexpensive fix for fixing this frustrating fit issue.

You can see it on the pair of jeans I’m showing above.
I bought them when I was about 5 pounds heavier, and now I can wear them each time my weight goes up or down and up or down, well…you get it.

YOU deserve to know what to wear.

You can learn how to dress for the body & life you have now, and end the stress you get when you open your closet door and say… “I have nothing to wear”. Book a call to learn how.

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Top 5 Styling Tips – 2023

Top 5 Styling Tips – 2023

Top 5 Styling Tips

It’s time to wrap up 2023, but before you do…

Take a look back at my Top 5 styling tips for stylish inspiration and motivation.

Four have helpful styling tips for you, and the other great shopping finds for yourself and the special people in your life.

1. My Favorite Things To Buy 2023
2. How To Make a Good First Impression
3. The Secret to a Flattering Neckline
4. Here Is How To Look Thinner In Photos
5. How You Could Have Your Own Pretty Woman Experience

Wishing you and yours cherished moments to share and love.

You deserve to love seeing your
reflection in the mirror!

I understand that want to finally love the clothes you wear and how you look in them.
Start your year knowing which style of clothes you should be wearing and buying.
Get transformation inside and out, when you Book a complimentary 30-minute Know What to Wear Zoom call with me. You’ll learn how to feel confident, stylish, and excited to get dressed every day!

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My Favorite Things 2023

My Favorite Things 2023

Yes, it’s that time of year again when YOU should treat yourself and those you love to wonderful things that make you feel good, look good, and do good.

Need a little inspiration for your Christmas Wish and Shopping List? Look no further!

Grab a cup of cocoa, coffee, or tea, cozy up by the fireplace, and explore my Favorite Things for 2023.

There are quite a few things you will love for your everyday needs too.

But wait, after you dive into the latest and greatest, let us take a stroll down memory lane and look back at my list for 2022 and 2021 for even more suggestions.

This is a busy time of year, so be sure to reward yourself for all the hard work you do because you earned it!

So, whether you’re decking the halls or dashing through the snow, make sure you sprinkle a little “me-time” into the festivities.

After all, ’tis the season to be jolly, and nothing says “jolly” like treating yourself to the joyous wonders of my handpicked favorites.

Here’s to a holly, jolly, and downright fabulous holiday season!

Let the festivities and shopping begin!

Make 2024 the year you stop guessing which clothes you look great in. Get style transformation when you Book a Zoom call to find out how to work with me in-person or virtually, and finally love the clothes you wear and how you look in them.

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Stylist Tips to Organize Your Jewelry

Stylist Tips to Organize Your Jewelry

Above was one, yes just one, of my piles of costume jewelry necklaces, in drawers that required me to move pieces aside, dig through boxes, etc, when I was accessorizing my outfits. 
 
But, within this delightful mess laid the potential to elevate any outfit I created.
 
I know I’m not alone in the accessory chaos – because I see the same tangle in my client’s homes and on Zoom.
 
Since I keep buying myself necklaces, I needed a clear solution. Which is why when I saw these lucite boxes at Home Goods, my eyes lit up. 
 
I had just freed up an entire shelf in my closet, and knew seeing all my goodies will be so much more fun, easier, and prettier to look at in these boxes.
 
Within your delightful mess lies the potential to elevate any outfit from mundane to magnificent, which is why organizing these treasures can unlock a treasure trove of style possibilities. 
 
Separating them from the jumble and giving each piece its own space is like granting each gem a chance to shine, no longer overshadowed by the clutter. 
 
Imagine the satisfaction of actually being able to find that perfect statement necklace to accentuate your dress, or quickly spotting the ideal pair of earrings to match your mood. Creating a well-organized, visible system not only saves time but also brings a daily touch of joy as you mix and match your accessories effortlessly, transforming even the simplest outfit into a fashion statement.
 
The art of organizing your accessories doesn’t just declutter your space; it declutters your mind and provides a calming effect. 
 
When I open my closet and can clearly see how I used boxes like these, I can’t help but smile. The organization makes me very happy.
 
Notice how I organized by color as well.
 
By creating a system where everything has its place, you’re essentially creating a harmony that transcends beyond mere organization. It’s about honoring each accessory for its unique beauty, allowing you to appreciate and actually wear each piece with the attention it deserves. So, untangle those necklaces, organize your treasures, and try this clear solution too.

You can get these stackable boxes on Amazon too.

And then she said:

  • “Scarlett guided me to buy a chic and modern wardrobe that works best for me. Her keen eye combined color, clothing, and accessories in ways I never dreamed I could wear.” – Barbara Andrews

Ladies, it’s time to get organized and always know what to wear! Book a Zoom call with me and find out how I’ll find the perfect clothes for YOU. 

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